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How Trying Gets in the Way of Personal Development
Mindfulness teachers the world over are instructing their students to stop trying and just BE. But how in the world could sitting...
RJ Rongcal
4 min read


There is Nothing Wrong with You (3 ways to discover this truth)
Many awakened teachers of the past and present have expressed this seemingly identical sentiment that there is nothing wrong with us, nor...
RJ Rongcal
6 min read


Stop Listening and Pay Attention! Experience > Content
For the self-improvement inclined, there is often a phase of searching. Searching for the right class, the right book, podcast,...
RJ Rongcal
4 min read


3 Less common Mindfulness Practices for Everyday Life
Mindfulness teachers often talk about the synergistic relationship between *formal and informal practice. Mindfulness "OFF-the-cushion,"...
RJ Rongcal
6 min read


What To Do About Strong Emotions - 5 Powerful Steps Toward More Freedom
Beyond accepting the moment as it is, what else can we do to reap the benefits of mindfulness and meditation? First developed by Michelle...
RJ Rongcal
4 min read


Why Is It So Hard To Simply Be?
Why is it so hard to simply be? We have believed for so long that doing the "right" things, living out new experiences, and orchestrating...
RJ Rongcal
3 min read


The Company of My Self
The company of myself is better than any podcast, I've concluded. True peace has never been found in culture or media, sports or the...
RJ Rongcal
2 min read


Take Note! Nuts & Bolts of Noting Meditation
Noting (or labeling) is a practice that I don't think gets enough "air time" in mindfulness circles. And when it does, it's often...
RJ Rongcal
11 min read


Disentangling from Anxiety
When we stop clinging to our beliefs and thoughts, they begin to unravel. For many of us, it's as if worrisome thoughts have been...
RJ Rongcal
4 min read


What Causes Suffering & Stress?
Ever wonder why life can be so hard sometimes? What can we do to make life easier? Or maybe it’s not us, but instead the content of our...
RJ Rongcal
8 min read


Staying Present with a Wandering Mind
It’s common for people to ask, “If mindfulness is all about being in the present moment, then how does planning for the future or...
RJ Rongcal
7 min read


Mindful Smart Phone Use - 3 Tips
Smart phones don't often leave me feeling very smart. In fact, my iPhone often hijacks my mind. And I use the word "hijack" deliberately,...
RJ Rongcal
6 min read


Mindfulness & Anxiety
Mindfulness teachers have this crazy notion that it is more helpful to become familiar with pain rather than try to avoid it or get rid...
RJ Rongcal
8 min read


3 Ways Mindfulness Can Help With Stress
Stress is good for us. Well, the right kind of stress can be good. The kind that we know is transient and relatively low-risk, like...
R.J. Rongcal
4 min read


Difficult Emails - 4 Questions To Ask Before Sending
It's 2019. Emails are a part of life. We speed through them with the seemingly unreachable goal of getting that inbox to zero - or maybe...
RJ Rongcal
3 min read


The 2 Most Important Words This Holiday Season
Once when Suzuki Roshi was giving a talk in the 1960's, he was asked to sum up the Buddhist teachings into something simple and...
R.J. Rongcal
4 min read


How NOT to Fall Asleep During Meditation - 5 Practical Tips
It happens to the best of us: an impromptu snooze in the middle of our meditation, only to wake up to the clanging of a bell or the...
RJ Rongcal
2 min read


I'm too busy, and 5 other garbage excuses for not meditating
I was on a Skype call with vipassana meditation teacher, Vincent Horn , several years ago and I was telling him about my inconsistency...
RJ Rongcal
5 min read


Beyond Just Presence - 3 Definitions of Mindfulness
I find it interesting that there is not a universally agreed upon definition of mindfulness. Probably because it is meant to be directly...
RJ Rongcal
5 min read
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